(E) Project books: how to tile; how to plant; how to paint, how to draw, how to fly - I'll build this section over time. In my judgment, self-esteem is tied to our abilities 'to do' various skills, which, in turn, builds our Growth Mindsets. I think that self-esteem and happiness are so strongly linked. I believe that actively doing and pursuing creative skills, which you enjoy, is incredibly healthy, if it brings you pleasure. The more skills that you acquire and truly master, then the stronger you become, which draws you to others with those skills. That kind of networking is extremely healthy.